Today, someone at DayJob commented on how much they’d like to try a book by Linda Howard.
Then, they pointedly looked at the book in my hands (by Linda Howard) and asked if I was done with it.
I was done alright. But I wasn’t letting that book out of my hands. Not only is Linda Howard one of my favourite authors, I’ve lent out books in the past and horrible things have happened.
Allow me to explain the insufferable horrors and my reactions.
HORROR #1.
They broke the spine or tore pages.
I read my books and hold them like cherished babies. Nothing gets folded or disrupted. If people break any part of them from the spine to the pages, I cry.
Reaction: I cursed all their ancestors and wished they were geckos.
HORROR #2.
They spilled something on it.
I don’t care if it’s water (and it usually isn’t). People have returned books after spilling coffee, gum or some strange, sticky substance among the pages.
Reaction: I cursed all their ancestors and wished they were geckos.
HORROR #3.
They lost it or ‘lent’ it to someone else.
With or without apologies, the bottom line is my book is gone and I have a hole in my heart.
Reaction: I cursed all their ancestors and wished they were geckos.
HORROR #4.
They wrote in it.
I don’t care if someone thinks they’re Plato with the insight to move millions or if they saw an ‘editing’ mistake and had to fix it. I don’t want their writing in my book.
Reaction: I cursed all their ancestors and wished they were geckos.
After experiencing all 4 of these horrors, I’ve resorted to not lending out books. Ever. I keep them in their shelves, neatly and carefully organized by genre. Not a page out of place.
I like to think they’re happy. More importantly, so am I.
And so are the geckos.
lol – you absolutely crack me up. Love this post, and it’s another reminder we’re so alike it’s scary! I promise never to ask to lend a book from you, and even if I did – I would wear gloves whilst reading it, use a torch to see through the small crack I’d made to open it, remove all pens from the general vicinity (not that I would write in a book) and never let another soul touch it 😉
That’s awesome! I love your comment! Especially the torch and using a tiny crack to read it! That’s hilarious!
Great post 😀 Had me chuckling.
But you’re very right, I get antsy about lending books now. I don’t understand how people don’t take more care when borrowing stuff from others!
Absolutely! Here! Here!
Woman after my own heart!!
Thanks so much, Judith!
Me, too!!! Lost far too many ‘favorites’ by lending and never seeing my books again. Now I say, “You can buy it at ……”
I like that! You can buy it here…*smile* Awesome answer!
Lol I’m the same way with books. It horrifies me when I lend books out and it comes back with torn spines. Such a crime against books!
So true!!
1 and 3 can be accidental, but writing in it? How does that happen without total disregard of another person’s property?
I don’t know. It was in pencil but still. I cried when I saw it.
Wow, I can absolutely identify with that. I cringe whenever I see someone putting a paperback flat on its back, or even pushing it down to make it stay open. Its spiiiiine! Grrr. My kids know that I get upset when they have food or drink nearby while reading.
On the other hand, strangely enough, I enjoy the fact that some of my favourite books are well-worn and have that “much loved look” about them. I know that contradiction doesn’t make much sense, but there you go. 🙂
Oh, and geckos are far too nice. Try snails, or… toads or something.
I love your comment! I laughed with it and I think it makes complete sense that you like the ‘much loved look’. That’s completely different from having someone else destroy your book. And you’re right, geckos are cute, aren’t they? Toads…ha!
Reblogged this on Infinitefreetime.com and commented:
No, you cannot borrow my books. Why? They are more important to me than you are.
LOL!!
Note that the reblog is a thing that is happening, but I’ve delayed it to tomorrow morning. I wish you could schedule these things. 🙂
Thanks so much for the reblog!
Oh, I feel your pain!
I once lent a prized book to my sister (who was a smoker at the time). She kept the book for several months before returning it to me dog-eared, yellowed and stinking of nicotine.
It’s still a bone of contention between us now… 🙂
Oh *shudder*. I’m allergic to cigarette smoke so someone else’s smoke doesn’t go well with me. I can so relate!
It’s a test of friendships for me; I would lend a tenner to a lot of people I know; I would let only a very, very select few borrow a book
LOL!!
I absolutely loved this post not just for the level of respect we share in the way we like our books to be treated, but also because of the squishable looking gecko. Loved it! There’s a great line by Robert Redford in Out of Africa where he’s telling someone about ending a friendship because they didn’t return a book to him. And the guy asks Redford, “You lost a friend over a book?” Redford matter-of-factly replies, “No, he did.” Priceless.
I had a particular soft spot for that little gecko. How cute was he?! He’s apparently a baby gecko…and you’re so right, completely squishable! Oh. I soooooo love that line by Robert Redford! I’ll have to remember that! Awesome comment!
Awesome post and it’s great to know I’m not the only one who loves to keep my books in pristine condition. 🙂 Do you ever take the book jackets off hardcover books or cover them in contact paper so they don’t get damaged in your bag or if someone bumps into it?
Absolutely!! So true! Wrap up those beautiful covers to preserve them! Great comment!
Writing in them! WRITING IN THEM!!!!! Talk about your hubris.
P.S. I followed Luther here.
Oh, I adored your comment! I laughed out loud because I could feel your horror at writing in the books! Love it!
This post is simply fabulous! 🙂 and sooooo true… I’ve never thought of hexing the culprits.
Books are treasures, aren’t they. Cheers!
Thank you so much!! They are treasures!
Ha! Love the geckos.
This obviously struck a chord with some book lovers, including me 🙂
Thank you, I loved the gecko as well! So many people can relate. It’s wonderful!
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Oh, what terrible crimes! Shocking!!!!
Thank you, Marjma!
That’s why I buy the e-book version first. I can highlight and write notes at will. Then I get the hard copy (paperback or hard cover depending on how much I loved it) and never have to open it. Ahhh, bliss! But– lined up by genre? You and my OCD husband would have a blast together.
LOL!!!
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